Sometimes it’s just the physical feelings that draw you to a certain person. But sometimes you might have to ignore those feelings! Pick someone you admire. Someone you know is worthy of you. Make sure they treat you nicely from the start. Remember: most of the time, people don’t change. If they’re horribly rude, they’ll probably stay that way. Watch how they treat people like the waitress at a restaurant, the customer service agent on the phone, drivers on the road, their parents. You want to be with people who are kind; they’ll be kind to you. You don’t have to settle. Keep your options open.